It’s an issue that doesn’t get a lot of press, but it’s far more widespread than most people think. Why can’t my boyfriend come sometimes? And how do I bring it up gently?Ī: Thank you for being brave and submitting your question! What you’re describing sounds like a delayed orgasm or impaired ejaculation. Sometimes I can tell that he’s trying to fake an orgasm, which makes me feel even worse. I’ve never been with a guy who couldn’t come.
I can’t help but feel like I must be doing something wrong. He’ll just go limp at some point and will awkwardly pull out. At first, I thought he was just trying to last longer to impress me, but we’ve been together six months and I think he’s orgasmed maybe three times? We have never talked about it either. My problem is that my boyfriend can’t come during sex. Q: I’ve never seen this issue addressed before, so I’m a little embarrassed to be asking.
Today’s week’s topic: why men can't come sometimes - and how to talk about it. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, to help us out with the details. We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship.
